Many people struggle to write a "script" for their ceremonies. I took great care to compile mine from several sources as well as writing out some of it myself. I hope this may help at least someone with their writing of their own ceremony script. It also includes links to all of the songs used and pictures of things as they occurred.
Wedding of Marlissa
Doss and Ian Cunningham
Prelude:
Four Tops
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Marvin Gaye and Tammi Terrell
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Ray LaMontagne
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The Turtles
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Processional
Officiate: Terri Schlag walks down aisle. Takes place at gazebo.
Ian Cunningham walks down aisle to place on
gazebo
Tom Cunningham walks Rosemary Cunningham down
aisle. Seats her. Takes place beside Ian.
Seth Wooten walks Phyllis Doss down aisle. Seats
her. Takes place beside Tom.
Caleb Hutcheson walks with Bailey Cunningham and
both take their places.
Sara Cunningham walks down aisle, takes place on
far left.
Kayla Brown walks down aisle takes place in
front of Sara.
Courtney Terry walks down aisle, takes place in
front of Kayla
Aliya Johnson walks down aisle pulling Ivy
Johnson in wagon. They take their
places.
KJ Hagan throws petals down aisle and goes to
stand beside Sara.
Bride’s Processional
Artist
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Song Title
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Vitamin String Quartet
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Glenn Doss walks Marlissa Doss down aisle. Both
stand in front of Terri Schlag.
(I thought I would be so emotional. I was laughing and singing down the aisle with Dad)
TERRI You may all be seated.
Welcome,
friends and family. Ian and Marli have invited us here today to share in the
celebration of their marriage. We come together not to mark the start of a
relationship, but to recognize a bond that already exists. This marriage is one
expression of the many varieties of love. Love is one, though its expressions
are infinite.
(To
Marli) Marli,
do you take this man to be your husband; to live
together in the covenant of marriage? forsaking all others, be faithful to him
as long as you both shall live?
MARLI I
do.
TERRI (to Ian) Ian,
do you take this woman to be your wife; to live
together in the covenant of marriage, forsaking all others, be faithful to her
as long as you both shall live?
IAN I
do
TERRI Who gives this woman to be wedded to this man?
GLENN: Her mother and I do.
(kiss my cheek, put my hand in Ian’s, sits next to
Phyllis)
TERRI 1
Corinthians 13 tells us “Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it
does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not
self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but
rejoices with the truth. It always
protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.” And so today we come
to celebrate those traits that Ian and Marli have found in one another.
As you have all been a part of their lives in some way in the
past, I ask now that you give your affirmation to continue to be so in the
future. To lift them up both as individuals and as the new united pair they
become today. Will all of you here as witnessing
to these promises made in love, do all in your power to uphold these two
persons in their marriage? If so, please answer, “We will.”
Audience answers “we will”
(one of my favorite shots of the whole day)
TERRI Ian and
Marli, the symbolic vows that you are about to
make are a way of saying to one another, “You know all those things we’ve
promised and hoped and dreamed- well, I meant it all, every word.” Look at one
another and remember this moment in time.
Pause to take in the moment
Before this moment you have been many things to
one another- acquaintance, friend, lover, companion [maybe add more here]
You have learned much from one another in this
time since deciding to meet a stranger off the internet and take a chance at
love.
(pause for laughs)
Now you shall say a few words that take you
across a threshold of life, and things will never quite be the same between
you. For after these vows, you shall say to the world, this – is my husband,
this – is my wife.
Please join hands
(I pass
off bouquet and take his other hand in mine)
Ian, repeat after me. I Ian Raymond Cunningham
IAN I
Ian Raymond Cunningham
TERRI Take
you, Marlissa Paige Doss
IAN Take
you, Marlissa Paige Doss
TERRI As
my lawfully wedded wife.
IAN As my lawfully wedded wife.
TERRI To
have and to hold.
IAN To have and to hold.
TERRI From
this day forward.
IAN From this day forward.
TERRI For
better or worse
IAN For better
or worse
TERRI For
richer or poorer.
IAN For richer or poorer.
TERRI In
sickness and in health
IAN In sickness and in health
TERRI To
love, honor, and cherish until death do us part
IAN To
love, honor, and cherish until death do us part
TERRI Marli,
Repeat after me. I Marlissa Paige Doss
MARLI I Marlissa Paige Doss
TERRI Take
you, Ian Raymond Cunningham
MARLI Take you, Ian Raymond Cunningham
TERRI As my lawfully wedded husband
MARLI As my lawfully wedded husband
TERRI To
have and to hold.
MARLI To have and to hold.
TERRI From
this day forward.
MARLI From this day forward.
TERRI For
better or worse
MARLI For
better or worse
TERRI For
richer or poorer.
MARLI For richer or poorer.
TERRI In
sickness and in health
MARLI In sickness and in health
TERRI To
love, honor, and cherish until death do us part
MARLI To love, honor, and cherish
until death do us part
TERRI May
we have the rings?
(Marli crouches down and calls Bailey. Bailey eagerly trots
over to Mommy. After a quick kiss she removes the rings from his collar. He
goes to sit with Phyllis and Glenn)
TERRI Ian,
please place the ring on Marli’s finger, and repeat after me: “I give you this
ring as a daily reminder of my love for you.”
IAN I
give you this ring as a daily reminder of my love for you.
TERRI Marli,
please place the ring on Ian’s finger, and repeat after me: “I give you this
ring as a daily reminder of my love for you.”
MARLI I
give you this ring as a daily reminder of my love for you.
TERRI (gets out handfasting chords)
Handfasting is an old Celtic tradition, and Ian
and Marli have chosen to use it to be an outward sign of the commitment they
make here. The Chord is made of many strands of ribbon, and intertwined are
pieces from each of their respective families, signifying that not only do two
people become one today, but two families become one.
Ian and Marli as your hands are bound together
now,
so your lives and spirits are joined in a union
of love and trust.
Above you are the sun and stars and below you
is the earth.
Like the sun and stars your love should be a
constant source of light,
and like the earth, a firm foundation from
which to grow.
Please hold the chord between your ringed
hands.
(Groom palm up, holding chord, Brides hand resting in his)
Ian and Marli, this chord is a symbol of the
life you have chosen to live together. Until this moment you have been separate
in thought, word, and deed. But as this chord is tied together, so shall your
lives become intertwined. With this chord, I bind you to the vows that you have
made to one another. With this knot, I tie you, heart to heart, together as
one.
May this love knot always be a reminder of the
binding together of two hands, two hearts, and two souls into one. And so you
are bound to one another, for all the days of your lives.
(Officiate ties love knot)
And with the knot tied, I now pronounce you
husband and wife. Ian, you may kiss your bride.
(We kiss.)
TERRI I
would like to officially present to you for the first time, Mr. and Mrs. Ian
Cunningham.
Recessional
Artist
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Song Title
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Chris Maghintay
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Ian
and Marli
KJ
Rosemary & Tom
Aliya, Ivy, Caleb
Phyllis, Glenn, & Bailey
Courtney
Wooter & Kayla
Sara