Marli Paige: A Pinner's Paradise: Our Ceremony

Many people struggle to write a "script" for their ceremonies. I took great care to compile mine from several sources as well as writing out some of it myself. I hope this may help at least someone with their writing of their own ceremony script. It also includes links to all of the songs used and pictures of things as they occurred.

Wedding of Marlissa Doss and Ian Cunningham

Prelude:

Four Tops	Baby I need your lovin'
Marvin Gaye and Tammi Terrell	You're All I need to get by
Ray LaMontagne	You are the best thing
The Turtles	Happy Together

Processional

J. Benjamin

Marry Me (Violin Cover, originally performed by Train)

Officiate: Terri Schlag walks down aisle. Takes place at gazebo.

Ian Cunningham walks down aisle to place on gazebo

Tom Cunningham walks Rosemary Cunningham down aisle. Seats her. Takes place beside Ian.

Seth Wooten walks Phyllis Doss down aisle. Seats her. Takes place beside Tom.

Caleb Hutcheson walks with Bailey Cunningham and both take their places.

Sara Cunningham walks down aisle, takes place on far left.

Kayla Brown walks down aisle takes place in front of Sara.

Courtney Terry walks down aisle, takes place in front of Kayla

Aliya Johnson walks down aisle pulling Ivy Johnson in wagon. They take their places.

KJ Hagan throws petals down aisle and goes to stand beside Sara.

Bride’s Processional

Artist	Song Title
Vitamin String Quartet	Hallelujah

Glenn Doss walks Marlissa Doss down aisle. Both stand in front of Terri Schlag.

(I thought I would be so emotional. I was laughing and singing down the aisle with Dad)

TERRI You may all be seated.

Welcome, friends and family. Ian and Marli have invited us here today to share in the celebration of their marriage. We come together not to mark the start of a relationship, but to recognize a bond that already exists. This marriage is one expression of the many varieties of love. Love is one, though its expressions are infinite.

(To Marli) Marli, do you take this man to be your husband; to live together in the covenant of marriage? forsaking all others, be faithful to him as long as you both shall live?

MARLI I do.

TERRI (to Ian) Ian, do you take this woman to be your wife; to live together in the covenant of marriage, forsaking all others, be faithful to her as long as you both shall live?

IAN I do

TERRI Who gives this woman to be wedded to this man?

GLENN: Her mother and I do.

(kiss my cheek, put my hand in Ian’s, sits next to Phyllis)

TERRI 1 Corinthians 13 tells us “Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.” And so today we come to celebrate those traits that Ian and Marli have found in one another.

As you have all been a part of their lives in some way in the past, I ask now that you give your affirmation to continue to be so in the future. To lift them up both as individuals and as the new united pair they become today. Will all of you here as witnessing to these promises made in love, do all in your power to uphold these two persons in their marriage? If so, please answer, “We will.”

Audience answers “we will”

(one of my favorite shots of the whole day)

TERRI Ian and Marli, the symbolic vows that you are about to make are a way of saying to one another, “You know all those things we’ve promised and hoped and dreamed- well, I meant it all, every word.” Look at one another and remember this moment in time.

Pause to take in the moment

Before this moment you have been many things to one another- acquaintance, friend, lover, companion [maybe add more here]

You have learned much from one another in this time since deciding to meet a stranger off the internet and take a chance at love.

(pause for laughs)

Now you shall say a few words that take you across a threshold of life, and things will never quite be the same between you. For after these vows, you shall say to the world, this – is my husband, this – is my wife.

Please join hands

(I pass off bouquet and take his other hand in mine)

Ian, repeat after me. I Ian Raymond Cunningham

IAN I Ian Raymond Cunningham

TERRI Take you, Marlissa Paige Doss

IAN Take you, Marlissa Paige Doss

TERRI As my lawfully wedded wife.

IAN As my lawfully wedded wife.

TERRI To have and to hold.

IAN To have and to hold.

TERRI From this day forward.

IAN From this day forward.

TERRI For better or worse

IAN For better or worse

TERRI For richer or poorer.

IAN For richer or poorer.

TERRI In sickness and in health

IAN In sickness and in health

TERRI To love, honor, and cherish until death do us part

IAN To love, honor, and cherish until death do us part

TERRI Marli, Repeat after me. I Marlissa Paige Doss

MARLI I Marlissa Paige Doss

TERRI Take you, Ian Raymond Cunningham

MARLI Take you, Ian Raymond Cunningham

TERRI As my lawfully wedded husband

MARLI As my lawfully wedded husband

TERRI To have and to hold.

MARLI To have and to hold.

TERRI From this day forward.

MARLI From this day forward.

TERRI For better or worse

MARLI For better or worse

TERRI For richer or poorer.

MARLI For richer or poorer.

TERRI In sickness and in health

MARLI In sickness and in health

TERRI To love, honor, and cherish until death do us part

MARLI To love, honor, and cherish until death do us part

TERRI May we have the rings?

(Marli crouches down and calls Bailey. Bailey eagerly trots over to Mommy. After a quick kiss she removes the rings from his collar. He goes to sit with Phyllis and Glenn)

TERRI Ian, please place the ring on Marli’s finger, and repeat after me: “I give you this ring as a daily reminder of my love for you.”

IAN I give you this ring as a daily reminder of my love for you.

TERRI Marli, please place the ring on Ian’s finger, and repeat after me: “I give you this ring as a daily reminder of my love for you.”

MARLI I give you this ring as a daily reminder of my love for you.

TERRI (gets out handfasting chords)

Handfasting is an old Celtic tradition, and Ian and Marli have chosen to use it to be an outward sign of the commitment they make here. The Chord is made of many strands of ribbon, and intertwined are pieces from each of their respective families, signifying that not only do two people become one today, but two families become one.

Ian and Marli as your hands are bound together now,

so your lives and spirits are joined in a union of love and trust.

Above you are the sun and stars and below you is the earth.

Like the sun and stars your love should be a constant source of light,

and like the earth, a firm foundation from which to grow.

Please hold the chord between your ringed hands.

(Groom palm up, holding chord, Brides hand resting in his)

Ian and Marli, this chord is a symbol of the life you have chosen to live together. Until this moment you have been separate in thought, word, and deed. But as this chord is tied together, so shall your lives become intertwined. With this chord, I bind you to the vows that you have made to one another. With this knot, I tie you, heart to heart, together as one.

May this love knot always be a reminder of the binding together of two hands, two hearts, and two souls into one. And so you are bound to one another, for all the days of your lives.

(Officiate ties love knot)